I definitely shouldn't have read Cosmo articles...
Apparently, I know nothing about guys.
You weren't silent every time I got mad because you didn't care. You were silent because you're a guy! And when you're born with a penis your taught to be tough, to not be emotional because that's "girl stuff" and that's just how you are! And I pissed you off and pushed you away because I got mad at you for being silent.
And according to this particular Cosmo article, you didn't stop being such a romantic because you didn't care, but because (surprise) it's normal guy behavior to get comfortable in a relationship and not feel like they have to put the romantic effort into it. ""When a man is confident his relationship is solid, he enters a comfort zone," says Dr. Haltzman. "He'll stop doing those extras because he doesn't need them and assumes you don't either." Unfortunately, this leaves you feeling insecure." Cosmo says. I know for a fact that me being insecure made you angry.
I irritated the SHIT out of you and per your nature, you never told me. I wish it hadn't of built up to this.
dude, i hate that about guys. and it always happens like that. girls get insecure so we need the reassurance that it will be ok but us being insecure pushes them away.
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